الوضع الليلي
0
The effect of excessive pampering on children
3:56:35 2023-05-28 3006

1- Dependent personality: One of the most dangerous results of pampering is that the child becomes dependent on the mother, then dependent on the family, then dependent on others in all his life affairs, dependent morally and financially, because he was not used to relying on himself, but rather others used to do his affairs for him, and the matter may reach to dependence on narcotic substances if he encounters an obstacle in his life; Because he does not have strategies for coping with pressure because his parents did not give him the opportunity to face any pressure by himself, and he did not learn patience and delaying gratification, but he got used to immediate gratification.

2- Inability to assume responsibility: One of the negative results of excessive pampering is that the child grows up unable to bear responsibility because he has not been trained to do so little by little, starting with making his bed and his school bag and ending with taking responsibility for himself in matters that concern him, and therefore it may weaken the level of academic achievement of the child Because he cannot bear the responsibility of studying, and he may run away from school, from military service, and from the marital home, returning to his mother (or her mother) to solve their problems for them.

3- Selfishness: the spoiled child fulfills all his desires, and therefore he thinks that all things belong to him, and not to anyone else. Thinking he or she has the right, and therefore does not give anything to anyone.

4- Inability to make decisions.

5- Anarchist: because he was never punished for bad behavior, and he did not learn the system.

6- The escaping methods in the face of pressures: such as escaping from school, escaping from bearing responsibilities, escaping from the responsibilities of marriage after that, escaping by sleeping, and escaping with addiction.

7- Inability to establish successful relationships: because he becomes selfish and self-loving, unable to give as he is used to taking only.

8- Stubbornness: Excessive pampering makes the child stubborn because he is unable to carry out any request or order, because he is used to being responsible.

Reality Of Islam

The Event of Closing the Doors

11:40:53   2026-11-11  

The Event of Mubahala

3:12:1   2026-10-11  

Proclamation of Surah al-Barāa

12:16:26   2026-10-05  

HadIth al-Manzila

1:15:53   2026-10-01  

MOST VIEWS

Importance of Media

9:3:43   2018-11-05

Illuminations

prophet adam & the apple

1:16:44   2018-05-14

be creative

8:25:12   2022-03-09

the 1st ever brothers

6:14:17   2018-06-21

people types

1:34:8   2022-02-01

smiling

1:38:41   2021-12-08



IMmORTAL Words
LATEST How to Be Friends with Our Children: Showing Genuine Interest in Them The Event of Closing the Doors Events Following the Death of the Prophet A Hidden Substance in Drinking Water May Be Linked to Heart Problems in Children No Batteries, No Plugs: Scientists Create a Tiny Sensor That Powers Itself New Research Reveals That Honey Beehives Act as a Living Immune System Kids Who Learn to Swim Early May Have an Unexpected Advantage in School Tiny Magnets Implanted in Muscles Are Giving Prosthetic Hands a Remarkable New Ability Scientists Spent 7 Years Studying Moth Wings and Discovered Something Unexpected A Healthier Form of Salt Could Prevent Nearly 3 million Deaths Every Year, Scientists Say New Research Reveals a Hidden Weakness Inside Electric Vehicle Batteries Earthquake Faults Can Suddenly Become Almost as Fluid as Water, Study Finds